Sunday, January 31, 2021

January reading!


Hi friends,

We’ve spent January settling into our new home in Colorado. We were homeless for two weeks while we waited for our stuff to arrive from Maryland. We fell afoul of being both the first house to get loaded on the truck to be followed by three more houses, and COVID delays as our driver had to substitute for another driver who got COVID-19 and had to isolate. Finally, though, our stuff arrived January 11, and we’ve settled in quite nicely. Our new house is quite a bit bigger than our old rancher in Maryland, so we’ve been furniture shopping both through scouring Craigslist and visiting American Furniture Warehouse – I don’t recommend bringing children to any furniture warehouses unless you’re prepared for them to try to jump on literally every couch in the store.

I did manage to read a few books this month amid all the flurry of moving. I’ve been on a Young Adult fantasy kick since I started following a few “booktubers” on YouTube. Check out Daniel Greene and Elliot Brook’s channels if you want great content and reviews about adult and young adult fantasy.

As always, let me know if you have any recommendations for further reading and if you have any thoughts about these books.

Cheers!

Tonya






The Spy and the Traitor: The Greatest Espionage Story of the Cold War
by Ben Macintyre

Rating: 4 of 5 stars

Recommendation: yes, especially for anyone who enjoys spy thrillers

Review: This was the only nonfiction book that I finished this month, but it read like a spy thriller novel. Macintyre tells the story of one of the highest-ranking Soviet defectors. Oleg Gordievsky was a colonel in the KGB, and the head of their London branch. Driven by ideological motivators and a desire to see Soviet-style communism dismantled, he relayed valuable intelligence information for years that in some cases literally directed the outcome of British-Soviet relations. In the end he fell afoul of one of the most infamous traitors in CIA history – Aldrich Ames. Following the betrayal, MI6 pulled off literally the most daring and spectacular extraction from Soviet Russia in history. Unfortunately for Gordievsky, who never told his wife that he was a spy, he’s separated from his family for years following his daring escape, and the resulting loss of trust in their marriage tore it apart. Hopefully, it was worth it? I know it was definitely worth it for Western country intelligence agencies. Macintyre’s impressive research skills allow the book to read like a novel and kept me hooked the whole time. Highly recommend.

 

 

Slay by Brittney Morris

Rating: 4 of 5 stars

Recommendation: yes!

Review: I will never know what it’s like to be the only person of my race in my high school. I think I’ve said on here before that one of the things I love most about reading – fiction and nonfiction—is that I can gain insight into other people’s experience and perspectives, which allows me to develop greater empathy and understanding of the human condition. In this book, 17 year-old Kierra Johnson is one of three Black students at her suburban Seattle high school. She’s also the secret creator of an online multi-player, virtual reality game made specifically to create a safe space for Black gamers online. Morris manages to not only tell a compelling and engaging story, but also uses the book to discuss sensitive race issues. I think my main race-relation takeaway I got from the book was that white people shouldn’t expect their black friends and acquaintances to speak for the whole Black race, and that it’s not fair of me to put them in a situation where they have to do that. I’m not a gamer, like, at all, but I also enjoyed reading about the virtual world the narrator had created and really enjoyed that part of the story.

 

 

Fireborne (The Aurelian Cycle #1) by Rosaria Munda

Rating: 5 of 5 stars

Recommendation: yes! For anyone who lives dragon riding fantasy!

Review: I have to confess that I have a large soft spot in my heart for dragon-riding fantasy novels. Reading Anne McCaffrey’s Dragonriders of Pern series growing up was one of my first introductions to fantasy, and cemented my love for the genre. Munda does an excellent job continuing that tradition here. To be honest, the dragonriding is not a huge part of the book. It’s mainly a political fantasy book that examines issues of class, propaganda, and governance. When the dragonriding does happen though, it is excellent. Also, I loved the two main point of view characters. One is the lost Anastasia-like son of the dragonborn class that was overthrown in a violent and bloody revolution the decade before, and the other is a farmer’s daughter who’s family was killed by his father’s dragon for not paying taxes. The relationship between the two main characters is the anchor for the whole book and motivates pretty much everything the two do. Highly recommend for anyone who likes fantasy and dragons in particular, and I can’t wait for the sequel to come out later this year.

 

 

Crown of Feathers by Nicki Pau Preto

Rating: 4 of 5 stars

Recommendation:  yes, for those who enjoy fantasy

Review: After reading the dragonriding Fireborne, I wanted to continue the mythical beast riding experience, and found this phoenix-riding book. Phoenix-riding was new, but is fairly similar to most dragonriding stories. The riders bond with their steeds at birth and undergo intense training programs before facing off with a big bad. Also, there’s romance, intrigue, and a pretty classic “girl-runs-away-and-disguises-herself-as-a-boy-to-fulfill-her-ambitions” plot. All tried and true elements of fantasy storytelling, but generally done well. To be honest, I wasn’t really hooked for the first 100 pages or so, but the last half of the novel more than made up for the slow beginning. Preto does a wonderful job of building an interesting and deep fantasy world. She generally does a fairly good job of weaving in the lore and history without “information-dumping” on the reader with long drawn-out explanations, but there were a few spots when I definitely felt she could have curtailed the lore and history to focus more on moving the plot forward. I was undecided until about half way through if I wanted to read the sequel, but finally felt enough of a connection to the characters that I put the sequel on hold.

 

 

 

The Downstairs Girl by Stacey Lee

Rating: 5 of 5 stars

Recommendation: yes! For anyone who loves historical fiction

Review: This was another YA novel that dealt a lot with race. Jo Kuan is a Chinese American teenager growing up in Atlanta, GA post-Civil War. To be honest, before reading this book, I had never thought about the experience of Asian Americans in the South. 1890 was an interesting time as well to set this book as segregation laws were just starting to take hold in the South following the end of Reconstruction and the withdrawal of federal troops to enforce the amendments passed following the Civil War. Turns out that Chinese people were both forbidden from owning property and leasing it, so Jo and the man who raised her, Old Gin, live in an old abolition hide-away beneath a printing business. Beyond the interesting insights into race relations at the time, Lee’s plot and character development are on point. Jo is an orphan, and starts to investigate the mystery of her birth with some amazing twists and surprises at the end. Her resilience and intelligence are remarkable, and it was a pleasure to read her thoughts. I really liked how Lee capture what I imagine was the style of the time in Jo’s speech and writing. Being white in America, I enjoy the privilege of not having to think much at all about race, but those of other races don’t enjoy that same privilege, and the uncontrollable and unchangeable fact of their race affects their every day lives in ways that I just don’t realize. Highly recommend.

 

 

Woven in Moonlight by Isabel Ibanez

Rating: 5 of 5 stars

Recommendation: yes!

Review: This was another five star book this month. It reminded me of Silvia Moreno-Garcia’s Gods of Jade and Shadow in that it was a fantasy set in Latin American folklore. For someone who reads a lot – maybe too much? – fantasy it’s refreshing to read a story that uses other folklore as its inspiration. Ibanez tells this Bolivian-folklore-inspired story, which relies on some classic fantasy conventions – in this case the royal body-double switch. The main character, Ximena, is the body double of the exiled Condesa who lost her thrown in a bloody revolution that put a tyrant king on the throne, who’s destroying his country’s economy by forcing farmers to grow the koka drug on their farmland for export. The new tyrant king demands that the Condesa marry him to cement his control, so Ximena the body double goes in her stead, with her true identity a secret. It has excellent action, romance, plot and character development, and I loved the magic. Unlike some epic fantasy magic systems, this one felt very natural with characters’ abilities varying and bestowed on them by the moon or sun gods. So fun!




Mommy Corner


Maya had fun at the playground by our new house. 

We're enjoying the snowy Colorado weather.

Chloe lost her first tooth! We didn't even realize it was loose until the day it fell out. She lost it while we were playing in the snow, so we wrote the very surprised and unprepared tooth fairy a note explaining what happened, and Chloe got a bunch of quarters.



Maya having fun at her new school.

I spent the last weekend in January at a "sisters retreat" with my sisters-in-law at my in-laws' cabin. It was great to get away and relax with friends. 
 
Swingin' sisters! 


Saturday, January 9, 2021

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year

 

Hi friends,

Wow. December was a crazy month for us. We celebrated the holidays, bought a house, sold a house, and moved halfway across the country from Maryland to Colorado. We’ve been homeless – well we’ve been staying in hotels/with family, but it feels like being homeless – for the past two weeks as we wait for our stuff to arrive in Colorado from Maryland. In the midst of the whirlwind of moving, I found some time to read several good books, including a few of the elusive 5-star reads. Thanks to booktuber Daniel Greene and Bill Gates for some of these recommendations. As always, recommendations for further reading are welcome.

Hoping that all of you are staying healthy and well. COVID-19 has hit pretty close to home for us recently with close family members getting sick. Thankfully, none of them had serious cases and are well on the road to recovery.


Stay safe and well.

Tonya





Dawnshard by Brandon Sanderson

Rating: 4 of 5 stars

Recommendation: yes, for anyone who enjoys fantasy

Review: This novella falls between the third and fourth Stormlight books, and should probably be read before you read the fourth book – Oathbringer –which I read and reviewed last month. Obviously, I did this out of out order, and was able to follow the events of Oathbringer just fine, but it would have been a better reading experience to read this one first as Dawnshard reveals new details about Cosmere lore that will probably be quite important for future reading…. It’s quite long for a novella, coming in at 208 pages, because it seems as if Sanderson is incapable of being brief. In this case, I thought the page count was justified and enjoyed getting to spend more time with secondary Stormlight series characters like Rysn and Lopen, who don’t get hardly any page time in Oathbringer. Highly recommend for any fans of Sanderson’s Cosmere.

 

 

Anxious People by Fredrik Backman (Translated by Neil Smith)

Rating: 5 of 5 stars

Recommendation: yes! An excellent book!

Review: I’ve read several of Backman’s books, and loved A Man Called Ove. This book, while very different, I think is on par with that one. A would-be bank robber becomes an accidental hostage taker when fleeing the scene of a failed robbery right into an apartment showing. As he did in Ove, Backman focuses on the relationships between his cast of colorful characters including some relationships that aren’t normally the focus in novels like fathers and sons, neighbors, and real-estate agents and their clients. He expertly maintains the mystery aspect of the book as a team of father-and-son police officers try to piece together what happened by interviewing the surprisingly unhelpful former hostages. As the book progresses and the mystery is gradually revealed, Backman expertly pulls us into caring  deeply about every character in the book as we learn about their flaws, triumphs, and regrets. He pulls all the disparate threads together at the end for a thought-provoking and emotional ending. Highly recommend.

 

The Splendid and the Vile: A Saga of Churchhill, Family, and Defiance During the Blitz by Erik Larson

Rating: 5 of 5 stars

Recommendation: yes!

Review: Since last March, we’ve all been living in a world-wide state of heightened stress as we deal with the collective and individual effects of the global pandemic. Bill Gates recommended this book in the context of dealing with society-wide catastrophes and how leadership can effect how people respond to stressful and highly uncertain situations. Between 1940 and 1941, tens of thousands of tons of explosives were dropped on London and elsewhere in England as the German Air Force tried to bomb Britain into submission after France surrendered. While having a bomb randomly dropped on your head and an invisible but highly contagious virus are two very different threats, I think that the leadership principles that Churchill used to help the British “find their courage” could have been applied to our pandemic situation. Churchill was honest and frank about the threat that the German Air Force and potential Nazi invasion presented, but he also inspired people to hope and continue working despite the threats that they were confronting. He didn’t sugarcoat or downplay the seriousness or severity of the situation, and was able to maintain public support largely by showing empathy for those suffering. He would tour bombed villages and neighborhoods, visit the injured in hospital, and wasn’t afraid to express his genuine emotions, often crying as he viewed the destruction. His sincerity and empathy helped to not only create broad support for the war effort, but also helped people find their courage and continue to do what needed to be done despite nightly raids. An excellent read for anyone interested in leadership and enduring to the end.

 

 

Range: Why Generalist Triumph in a Specialized World by David Epstein

Rating: 4 of 5 stars

Recommendation: yes, a good read when considering career and education

Review: This was another Bill Gates recommendation. It was one of those non-fiction books where the main idea can be summarized in a few sentences, but the author manages to draw it out into a 300+ page book. Basically, Epstein argues that the 10,000 hours of practice to expertise rule is not applicable for most real-world situations. He says that while dedicated and exclusive practice works well to build expertise in simple situations where the rules are clear and well-defined, the world is dominated by wicked situations where the rules are unclear or incomplete and patterns aren’t obvious. In these situations, developing a range of skills across different disciplines is more likely to lead to success. He points out many examples of successful athletes and entrepreneurs who jumped around from one sport or area of interest to another before settling on an endeavor that made them famous. From a parenting perspective, he notes that we shouldn’t pressure children or teens to stay with an activity if they want to quit and try something else and notes that failure is necessary to eventual success. An interesting read for anyone who wants to know how to stay relevant in a rapidly changing world where the skills that got you a job today won’t help you keep your job in 10 years.

 

 

Cosmos by Carl Sagan

Rating: 5 of 5 stars

Recommendation: yes! An amazing read for anyone who loves learning

Review:  This is a classic popular science book and companion to one of the most-watched-ever television series. Sagan is an amazing writer and scientist. His prose is both understandable and beautiful, and he flows easily from one idea to the next as he explains the cosmos to you. It's a incredibly relaxing read and a great way to destress. Cosmos explains the world and universe we live in expounding on the creation of the universe and formation of stars and planets to the intricacies of atoms and Mars exploration1980s, so there's been many advances, particularly in Mars exploration, that aren't here, but it's still a highly relevant and accurate science book and has aged really well. Since it was written in the In the end, he brings it all back to planet earth and how we can be good stewards of the civilization that we’ve built. Definitely recommend.

 

 

Kings of the Wyld (The Band1) by Nicholas Eames

Rating: 4 of 5 stars

Recommendation: a fun and wild read for anyone who loves fantasy or Dungeons and Dragons

Review: This book was described to me as a Dungeons and Dragons campaign as a novel. I’ve never played Dungeons and Dragons, but I liked this book, so maybe it would be fun. In any case, it’s a wildly fun and entertaining romp about literally “putting the band back together.” In this fantasy world, monsters roam the Wyld and bands of warriors are hired to slay them. The Kings of the Wyld was the most famous band in the world until their split over 20 years ago. Now, their frontman, Golden Gabe, needs to get the band back together for an audacious and most-likely fatal rescue mission. His daughter and her new band are under siege from a massive horde of monsters led by an immortal Durin who wants to go back to the good old days when all humans and monsters were slaves. It’s a great, refreshing fantasy reads that shows how the bonds of friendship change and adapt over time and how they make life worth living. Highly recommend for any fantasy readers, but be advised that there’s quite a lot of lewd jokes and foul language.

 

 

Bloody Rose (The Band 2) by Nicholas Eames

Rating: 4 of 5 stars

Recommendation: yes, for anyone who liked the first book

Review: This is the second Band book from Eames. We’re waiting for a third later this year… While technically a sequel, this book follows a new band of mercenaries as they seek to prove that they’re the bravest and best band in the world. It does tie in closely with the events of the first book, so I recommend reading that one first. That being said, this one does stand-alone nicely, and the events are somewhat more high-stake than the first book. It also explores interesting themes like addiction and not fitting into traditional roles. Overall, I think I enjoyed the first book more, but this one was also a great read.


Mommy's Corner


Chloe was excited to move to Colorado!

Chloe will sometimes read books that she has memorized to Maya. It's pretty cute.

I thought I'd lost this cute giraffe hoodie my mom bought for Chloe a few years ago. I found it when we were packing to move. Luckily, it'll fit Maya for a while yet. 

Chloe loves doing projects at school.

Chloe and Maya's classes threw them going away parties. It was pretty cute. We definitely miss Greenwood.

Christmas jammies!